Is this considered flirting or does he seem like a flirt, in general?
I have a crush on a guy I’ve hung out with 4 or 5 times. When we are together, he acts what I would call flirty with me. I’ve noticed that he always hugs me when I first get there, but no one else. Last time we hung out with other friends, I was sitting on a bar stool and he came and put his arms around me from behind and just stood there for awhile, hugging me. We have talked a few times on facebook, and last week he gave me his number (but didn’t ask for mine). I texted him so he would have my number. We had a very short conversation, only about 4 or 5 texts. I didn’t hear from him for the next 3 days, until he texted me last night, saying "Hey cutie". Our conversation was about 30 minutes long. He just randomly stopped replying. I havent heard from him today. I feel like he does flirt when we’re together, but like he doesnt make that much of an effort to talk to me. Am I just over-analyzing or does he just not want to come across as desperate or does it seem like he is just being overly friendly?
I would advice to see what happen next. Play a bit hard to get, as usually he was the one who stop replying, the next time u guys have a convo try to be the one who stop the conversation. See how does he react? If he continuously try to talk to u again, there’s a BIG chance that he’s into u, if he’s not he may just be a flirt.
U may not know it but maybe he’s playing the mind games too to u, so why dun u do the same thing to him? lol
If u feel like he’s flirting with u, then dun put ur heart too much in it, just flirt with him back and see where it goes ,k? ;p
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I know exaactly what your going through!! When your with him you think "oh he really likes me" But then when you try to talk he hardly says anything and makes it seem like he doesnt want to talk to you! It could mean a lot of different things! I think he is definitely flirting with you and the fact that he only hugged you and that he seemed particularly attracted to you makes me wanna say that he isnt a "flirt" so maybe he just doesnt like texting or talking on facebook! Maybe he likes talking to you in pereson more!