How should I respond to this girl’s flirting? She likes to touch a lot.. Read this for more..?
Okay, so i’m on a student committee and we all hang out together often. One of the girls is really hot, quite outgoing and flirty. She mentioned something about a boyfriend, but not being happy with him. She normally talks a lot to me and I enjoy her company. Okay I do like her, though I’m not sure whether its just being close to her as a friend cos she’s fun or whether i fancy her. Lets call her B. Okay, so one day we were all playing cards, and I was sitting on the right side of a two seater sofa with someone else on my left, who wasn’t really paying attention. There’s a chair right next to me on my right side. She came into the upstairs room a bit late and sat on that chair on my right side.
As we all began to play cards and watch tv, the others are around the table in front of me, sort of half looking at the tv more than the cards, she sort of leant against the back of her chair facing me (though looking down at her cards and the tv) and bent her knees over my armrest and… put her feet onto my lap. My right arm was sort of loosely trapped between the outside of the sofa and her thighs. B sort of put her right foot on the inside of my thigh.. pretty close to my crotch and her left… well sort of on top of my crotch! Look I don’t know whether it was intentional or well.. I don’t know.. or whether she was just resting her feet, being her normal bubbly cheeky self.
Okay, I did enjoy the sensation of her feet resting on me.. and I was a little turned on my her right foot which (perhaps I imagined though) was gently moving this way and that to and fro my crotch. I didn’t say anything or react, just kept playing cards.. I sort of felt her push my hand which was on the outer arm rest into the arm rest so it was literally touching her thigh. I didn’t know what to do! I mean, there were others around too! I didn’t know whether anyone was really paying attention.. then my phone rang on loud and I had to sort of get up and leave the room!! By the time I got back the moment was sort of gone.. we all had to go, she had taken my place on the chair watching tv with the others..
I don’t know whether she was trying to suggest something to me.. in one of our student events, one day she sort of did a similar thing at a bar when we took the students out to. It was only for a few minutes, before we were interrupted and all had to leave, but she sort of sat on the stool next to me and put her legs over mine to touch the floor.
Okay.. I’m sort of turned on by her other times, but I do actually like being close to her.. just not ready for a relationship and she has a boyfriend! It’s been a month now, just the other day though we were all sitting together in a more open setting, this time she sat next to me and asked out loud whether she could sort of rest her feet on me, but that’s what the others were doing on the sofa lounging around. This time though it was more of a simple putting her feet out cos she wanted to lie down…
What do you think?
Tagged with: arm rest • crotch • knees • leant • one of the girls • outer arm • paying attention • playing cards • right arm • right foot • seater sofa • sensation • student committee • thighs • upstairs room • watch tv
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arghk, too long! who will bother to read that! having read just your heading, i’d say go flirt with her if you like her and avoid her if you don’t. avoid giving her hopes if you have no intentions of making her your girlfriend.
i would say if she is no longer into hr last bf. and she is hunting for her next man. I am in the sort of the same situation like you. i can say that she is intrested, and what u should do if she is flirting with you. since she is touching you often she is not a shy girl and she has broken the touch barrier of dating, most girls do no like to be touched or touch a guy unless they are comfortable with it. just be her friend man, that all i can mostly say about her, dont be on clound nine all the time about her, once u start showing how u feel all of sudden, cause then u will scare her off.i think of it like this, she is like a fish u have her hooked and all u need to do is real her in slowly, and once u do then u have her. the best weapon is to have her like you more, flirty, tease her a bit, and smile at her if she smiles back at you smiel back! if she is staring at you and u catch her just smaile and laugh or smerk, ring her a gift, and occasionally remind her about her birthday. but is she starts talking about the future and what do u want to do and asking about ex girlfriends be careful! she is fishing! and also she might asking you what you are doing on the weekends and where u work, if she shows up to ur workplace then there is a big hint she is liking you. watch her feet, if her feet are pointed at you, she likes you, another sign humans show is subconscience mirrios which is where the male will move his legs, and she will too. if she starts comparing u to her past bfs. then u are going in a good direction. wait for her to ask about meeting parents, and family. to sumit all up just be her friend right now, and nothing else, u do not want to be rebound for her. and then everything else will fall into place. trust me, its working for me=)
WARNING: SHE CAN BE USING YOU TO GET BACK AT HER BOYFRIEND!